some things I thought about yesterday and today and hopefully tomorrow too:
Someone said to trust that the pain you are feeling now will be the same reason you feel joy later on.
One door that was once full of love closing means a new one opening with fresh beginnings.
It’s more than okay to change your mind. The only person you need validation from should be yourself, but make sure to get advice from the people who love you because sometimes they can see what you need better than you can.
It feels so much better to accept people fully, than to hesitantly pick and choose. When you start treating others how they deserve, your standards will go up for yourself as well.
Stop doing things that make you feel lesser in order to make someone else happy.
These are the moments where you need to be true to yourself and decide whether the relationship benefits the other more than yourself.
It has taken me a long time (still going) to understand that my life is still important even if I am not doing the same things I used to hold such high value to.
When it feels as if your heart is aching to fit into a mold you have already outgrown, know that you are creating a new one in the midst of the hurt. They’re growing pains for a reason.
Growth doesn’t just come from your environment, it’s something you have to work at from the inside.
It’s more important to just eat the food instead of depriving yourself not only physically, but mentally too.
Please believe there is still time for you to be everything that you want to be. There is always going to be time.
Also just believe that things will work out. Not only for yourself, but for your friends and family and everyone else in your life. I read this quote that says the secret to happiness is letting every situation be what it is instead of what you think it should be, and then making the best of it.
There is a lot more to say and a lot more to talk about, but I would rather have those conversations in person than on a screen.
that is all.